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NyanaCreation
welcome to my little corner of the internet,my name is Nyan or Nyana and i am a non-binary bean who mostly makes
art, stories and audio. my goal is to make your day a bit brighter with the content that i make. i hope we can have some good times toghter.

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I need some help :/

Posted by NyanaCreation - February 18th, 2017


Hey Guys,

so to start with somthing positive i cut my hair today ^_^ it's alot shorter now than before, until my shoulders. it's weird that i don't have long hair over my shoulders (for now, it grows back fast :p ) but they cut it a little to short but i like it and it doesn't look bad. 

but anyway you probebly wouldn't care so i will go on. so why did i write as titel: i need some help :/ . there is a good reason for that. so i won't go in to the little details because i will hurt someone with that and i don't want that. sooooo i litterly need some advice because i have been struggeling with this the past couple of weeks: 

so anyway i will go straight to the point like i always do and like to do. soooo these last couple weeks i have been doing somthing that goes against my opinion and feelings. i am trying to learn how to love myself but this just drains my energy and hope but if i stop it will destroy someone else who i care about above every thing else. if i stop the person could break down and give up hope and i wouldn't want that. i will still be by there side and try helping but i don't know what to choose. should i keep going and help them keep there mood and hope up but go against my feelings or should i stop and go with my feelings but risk that the person could give up  hope and breaks down? i am struggeling with this for the last couple weeks and it's honestly breaking me down so i need some help so please can anybody give me some good advice. i don't care how long your reply is just send it to me please, i can really use it because i don't know what to do. 

but thanks for reading this ^_^ i hope you all have a great day 

and stay positive <3 

~N 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ErP7ioAKUeM


Comments

Hey kid, you can never fail at what you do, you can always keep trying, no matter how hard it is, no matter what get's in the way.

haha gosh i haven't been called a kid in a long while but what do you mean by that? should i go with that feels right and can't i go wrong? could you explain that please.
(but thanks ^_^)

Just try to do what feels right to you, bud.

your sure? what if i make the wrong choice and i ruen somthing with that?
i know it's bad but i care about the person.
(i hate making this kind of decions)

We all have to make sacrifices, don't we?

yah true, i guess we can't stop sacrifices (i'm just sick of them i have made sacrifices from
when i remember) but i will mabey go with my gut than.
but thanks your a big help so thanks bud ^_^

While it's noble of you to sacrifice so much for someone else,you might want to bring in a third person,someone whom you can trust like a teacher or counsellor,to help.This way,you can get a break from deciding if you should carry on helping your friend or not and your friend can get the advice and support s/he needs at the same time.Your friend may not like the idea,so you need to let her/him know how all this makes you feel and that having someone else to help her/him isn't really a bad thing and that you are doing this because you care for her/him as friend.

that sounds like an good idea, i will think about using that idea,
thank you so much this is a huge help ^_^